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  • The emotional toll of owning a dog with behavioral issues

    The emotional toll of owning a dog with behavioral issues

    Owning a dog is often a joyful and rewarding experience, but what happens when your furry companion exhibits behavioral issues? The emotional toll of having a dog with behavioral issues can be overwhelming, affecting both the owner and the pet.

    In this blog post, we will explore the complex emotions that arise, including guilt and how outsiders may perceive the situation. Additionally, we will discuss practical ways to help your dog and yourself navigate these challenges.

     

    The emotional toll of owning a dog with behavioral issues

     

    Understanding the emotional rollercoaster

    When I adopted Dylan, I was so happy and couldn’t wait for all our adventures we would take together. However, the reality of my new best friend was something that I wasn’t prepared for at all. He would lunge and bark at anything and everything that crossed his path. We would go on walks at odd hours, no one came over to my house, and hanging out at dog-friendly places was certainly out of the question.

    When your beloved dog displays behavioral issues, it can trigger a range of emotions within you. Initially, you may feel confusion and frustration, questioning your abilities as a pet owner. I was convinced that I let Dylan down and was the cause of his issues. The constant worry and stress can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being, leading to feelings of helplessness and anxiety.

    You may find yourself experiencing a mix of emotions such as:

    • Frustration: Dealing with challenging behaviors can be frustrating, especially when you’ve tried various methods to correct them.
    • Disappointment: If your dog’s behavior is not improving as quickly as you hoped, you may feel a sense of disappointment in yourself or your pet.
    • Embarrassment: The fear of judgment from others can lead to feelings of embarrassment when your dog acts out in public.
    • Overwhelm: Managing a dog with behavioral issues requires time, energy, and resources, which can be overwhelming, especially if you’re already juggling other responsibilities.

     

    Guilt: A constant companion

    One of the most significant emotional burdens faced by dog owners dealing with behavioral issues is guilt. You might find yourself questioning whether you caused the problems or failed to provide the right training and socialization. The weight of this guilt can be overwhelming, impacting your relationship with your dog and your own self-esteem. I don’t know how many times I just broke down crying (at home and in public) because of his behavior and my inability to control him.

    • Self-blame: It’s common for dog owners to blame themselves when their pet exhibits behavioral issues. You may wonder if you’ve made mistakes in training or socializing your dog.
    • Unmet expectations: If your dog’s behavior doesn’t align with your expectations, you might feel guilty for having unrealistic expectations or not doing enough to meet them.
    • Comparison to others: Seeing well-behaved dogs owned by others can intensify feelings of guilt, making you question your abilities as an owner.

    To address feelings of guilt:

    I think that the guilt is the hardest thing to overcome. And, like me, you may even think that your dog would better off in a new home. But things can improve, if may take some time, and you may need to adjust your expectations (it’s ok that Dylan will never be the beer garden dog).

    • Acknowledge that every dog is unique, and behavioral issues are not solely a reflection of your capabilities as a pet owner.
    • Seek professional guidance to understand the root causes of the behavior and develop an appropriate training plan.
    • Practice self-compassion by reminding yourself that you are doing your best to help your dog.

     

    The judgment of outsiders

    Dealing with a dog’s behavioral issues can also expose you to judgment from outsiders who may not fully understand the situation. Friends, family, and even strangers may offer unsolicited advice or pass judgment without recognizing the complexities involved. This external scrutiny can heighten your emotional stress and lead to a sense of isolation.

    • Well-meaning but misguided advice: People who haven’t experienced similar issues may offer advice that oversimplifies the problem, leading to frustration and misunderstanding.
    • Misunderstandings and stereotypes: Outsiders may assume that your dog’s behavioral issues are a result of poor training or neglect, which can be hurtful and undermine your efforts.
    • Social isolation: The fear of being judged or misunderstood can lead to social isolation, as you may withdraw from social activities or environments where your dog’s behavior could be scrutinized.

    To cope with outsider perceptions:

    This one is really hard and even now, years later, I sometimes feel ashamed when people see Dylan wearing his muzzle when we are on our way to the see the vet. They look at us like he’s a bad boy and I’m a bad dog owner for having a dog with issues. But I have ways that I try and cope.

    • Educate others: Help others understand that behavioral issues can arise due to a variety of factors, including genetics, past experiences, or medical conditions. Educate them about the complexity of your dog’s situation.
    • Surround yourself with supportive individuals: Seek out communities or support groups of dog owners facing similar challenges. These spaces provide a sense of understanding and empathy.
    • Focus on the positive: Remember that there are people who appreciate and support your efforts. Surround yourself with individuals who uplift and encourage you in your journey.

     

    Empathy: Understanding your dog’s perspective

    While coping with your emotions, it is essential to remember that your dog is also affected by their behavioral issues. Dogs are highly sensitive creatures who can sense your frustration and anxiety. Their emotional well-being is intertwined with yours, making it crucial to approach their issues with empathy and understanding.

    • Fear and anxiety: Dogs with behavioral issues may exhibit fear or anxiety-related behaviors, which are often rooted in past traumas or insecurities.
    • Communication breakdown: Miscommunication between you and your dog can contribute to behavioral issues. Understanding their body language and cues is vital for effective training and management.
    • Dependence on your emotional state: Dogs are highly attuned to their owner’s emotions. If you’re stressed or anxious, it can exacerbate your dog’s behavioral issues or hinder their progress.

    To promote empathy and understanding:

    • Educate Yourself: Learn about canine behavior, body language, and communication to better understand your dog’s needs and feelings.
    • Positive reinforcement: Utilize positive reinforcement training methods to build trust, strengthen the bond with your dog, and encourage desired behaviors.
    • Provide a safe space: Create an environment that promotes feelings of security and comfort for your dog, reducing their stress levels.
    • Be your dog’s advocate: Strangers might want to say hi to your dog or they want their dog to say hi to your dog. I don’t know why this is a thing, when I’m walking around, I don’t stop to greet everyone I pass. If your dog learns that you will set boundaries with strangers, he may learn that he doesn’t have to take charge in those situations. This will potentially help to curb unwanted behaviors.

     

    Seeking support: Professionals and communities

    Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Seeking professional help from certified trainers, behaviorists, or veterinarians can provide valuable guidance tailored to your dog’s specific needs. Additionally, joining online or local communities of dog owners facing similar challenges can offer emotional support and practical advice.

    And if at first you don’t succeed, keep trying. When I first adopted Dylan, we had a very bad experience with a less than understanding vet. But instead of listening to that vet, we kept searching and finally found one who has taken the time to understand Dylan’s needs and to gain his trust.

    • Professional guidance: Certified trainers or behaviorists can assess your dog’s behavior, identify underlying issues, and develop a customized training plan.
    • Veterinary support: Consulting with a veterinarian is crucial to rule out any medical conditions that could contribute to your dog’s behavioral issues.
    • Supportive communities: Online forums, social media groups, or local dog training classes can connect you with individuals who have faced similar challenges, providing a sense of camaraderie and shared experiences. We found an amazing training facility and community of dog owners facing similar issues with their dogs.

     

    Training and enrichment: A path to progress

    Investing time and effort into training and enrichment activities is crucial for both you and your dog. Positive reinforcement training techniques, consistent routines, and mental stimulation exercises can help address behavioral issues gradually. This process requires patience, but the progress made will boost your confidence and strengthen the bond with your furry friend.

    • Positive reinforcement: Reward-based training methods encourage desired behaviors and create a positive association for your dog.
    • Consistency and routine: Establishing consistent rules, boundaries, and routines help provide structure and security for your dog, aiding in behavior modification.
    • Mental stimulation: Engage your dog’s mind with puzzle toys, interactive games, or training exercises to channel their energy and prevent boredom-related behaviors.

     

    Self-care for owners of a dog with behavioral issues

    Caring for a dog with behavioral issues can be draining, so it is vital to prioritize your own self-care. Engaging in activities that reduce stress, such as exercise, hobbies, or spending time with supportive friends, can help you maintain a balanced mindset and cope with the emotional challenges more effectively.

    • Establish boundaries to ensure you have time for yourself.
    • Practice self-care activities that replenish your energy and promote emotional well-being.
    • Lean on supportive friends, family, or professionals to discuss your feelings and experiences. Sometimes, simply talking about your emotions can provide relief and perspective.
    • Engaging in mindfulness techniques, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help manage stress and promote a calmer mindset.

     

    Celebrating the small victories with a dog with behavioral issues

    Remember to celebrate every small victory along the way. Recognize and reward your dog’s progress, no matter how minor. Celebrating achievements will help you stay motivated, improve your dog’s confidence, and reinforce positive behaviors.

    There was a time that I couldn’t vacuum the house without Dylan chasing me around attacking the vacuum. The first time, he remained calm while I vacuumed around him, we celebrated with lots of treats and hugs. It may sound silly, but small milestones like this shouldn’t be overlooked.

    • Keep a journal: Document your dog’s progress, noting improvements and milestones. Reflecting on the positive changes can boost your morale during challenging times.
    • Reward system: Establish a reward system for both you and your dog. Celebrate achievements with treats, praise, or engaging in activities that bring joy to both of you.
    • Focus on effort: Acknowledge the effort you are putting into your dog’s well-being. Recognize that progress takes time and that every step forward is a significant achievement.

     

    Conclusion

    Owning a dog with behavioral issues can be emotionally demanding, but it is important to approach the situation with compassion, both for yourself and your pet. Overcoming the emotional toll requires understanding the complexities of the situation, seeking professional support, and investing in training and enrichment. Remember, with patience, perseverance, and the right resources, you can create a positive environment for your dog, nurture a stronger bond, and find solace in knowing you are doing your best.

  • Alternatives to dog parks: Why they may not be ideal and what dog parents can consider

    Alternatives to dog parks: Why they may not be ideal and what dog parents can consider

    When I first brought home my dogs, I was excited to learn of several dog parks in the area. Living in an apartment, it was going to give me some great options for them. Dog parks can provide a chance to for your dog to exercise, socialize, and play. After several attempts, I quickly learned that while these parks can offer some benefits, they also come with their fair share of drawbacks. Some people may have great experiences, but I want to look at some reasons why dog parks may not be ideal for every dog. And also explore some alternatives to dog parks while still ensuring your dogs lead fulfilling lives.

     

    Alternatives to dog parks: Why they may not be ideal and what dog parents can consider

     

    Safety concerns

    One of the main concerns surrounding dog parks is safety. While most parks have rules and regulations in place, there is still the risk of aggressive or unpredictable dogs that can pose a threat to others. This unpredictable behavior can lead to injuries, fights, and an overall stressful experience for both dogs and their owners. Furthermore, dog parks may not be adequately maintained, with potential hazards such as broken fences or toxic substances that could harm our four-legged friends.

    Oftentimes, dog owners will not monitor their dogs closely which can lead to issues as well. We had a situation where one dog was trying to show dominance which almost escalated to a fight when my dog decided he had enough. Because the owner of the dog wasn’t paying attention, I had to intervene and remove my dog. This could have caused more issues as I didn’t know this dog and my dog could have potentially tried to protect me.

    From personal experience, the most stressful time is upon entering the park. Whenever we would enter a busy park, all the dogs would gather at the entrance which can be really overwhelming. Any dog can easily become nervous having to move through a group of dogs wanting to smell and play. This may cause aggression and fights especially if your dog needs a little space.

    It’s crucial for dog parents to prioritize safety and consider alternative options that provide a controlled environment for their dogs. So, here are two alternatives to dog parks worth considering.

     

    Secure backyard or enclosed spaces

    Creating a secure and controlled environment in your own backyard or using enclosed spaces can offer a safer setting for your dog to play and exercise. You can set up a fenced area or use dog enclosures to provide a designated space for your pet to explore, run, and play freely while ensuring their safety.

    Obviously if you live in an apartment this isn’t always possible. But you can invest in a very long leash/lead and find a place nearby where they can run and explore with some freedom. You could investigate the dog park and only go during times where there are fewer or no other dogs. Many apartment complexes now have dog areas, so this may allow you to get to know a few dogs that your dog can play with.

     

    Private doggy playdates

    Arrange playdates with other dog owners who have well-behaved and compatible dogs. This way, you can ensure a safe and controlled environment for socialization. Meet in a neutral and enclosed area where dogs can interact under supervision. This allows you to monitor the dynamics and intervene if necessary, promoting positive social interactions and minimizing the risk of aggressive encounters.

     

    Lack of control and training opportunities

    Dog parks often lack the control and structure necessary for effective training and behavior correction. The presence of numerous dogs can overwhelm some pets and hinder their ability to learn and obey commands. Moreover, there’s a risk of your dog picking up bad behaviors or reinforcing existing ones from poorly trained or unruly dogs in the park. To address these concerns and provide better training opportunities, consider the following dog-park alternatives.

     

    Professional training classes

    Enroll your dog in obedience classes or seek the assistance of a professional dog trainer. These structured environments offer focused training and socialization opportunities tailored to your dog’s specific needs. Trainers can guide you in teaching basic commands, socializing with other dogs in a controlled manner, and addressing specific behavioral issues. This individualized approach can lead to more effective training outcomes compared to the chaotic environment of a dog park.

     

    Community events and dog-friendly establishments

    Many communities organize dog-friendly events and gatherings where your furry friend can interact with other dogs in a controlled environment. These events often have regulations in place, ensuring responsible pet ownership, and provide opportunities for socialization and exposure to various stimuli. Additionally, dog-friendly establishments like cafes and stores allow you to take your dog along, providing opportunities for socialization while maintaining control over the environment.

     

    Health risks and disease transmission

    To minimize the risk of disease transmission, consider the following alternatives to dog parks.

     

    Doggie daycare

    Doggie daycare facilities offer supervised play sessions in a controlled and sanitary environment. The staff maintains high cleanliness standards and ensures all dogs are up-to-date on vaccinations. This controlled setting reduces the risk of disease transmission and provides opportunities for socialization and exercise. The facility will also know about the behavior of the different dogs so can create smaller play groups allowing a more enriching experience for all the dogs.

     

    Walking groups

    Joining a dog walking group or hiring a professional dog walker can provide exercise and socialization opportunities while minimizing the risk of disease transmission. Walking groups often have guidelines and requirements for participating dogs, including up-to-date vaccinations and well-behaved behavior. This allows your dog to interact with others in a safer and controlled manner while enjoying the benefits of exercise and companionship. You can also find local groups who meet to go on regular pack walks. Many dogs enjoy this setting without having to directly play with another dog. They are also often run by professional trainers.

     

     

    Conclusion

    While dog parks can be a convenient option for dog owners seeking socialization and exercise opportunities for their pets, they are not without their drawbacks. Safety concerns, lack of control and training opportunities, and the risk of disease transmission are valid reasons for exploring alternatives. By considering secure backyard spaces, private playdates, professional training classes, community events, dog-friendly establishments, doggie daycare, and walking groups, dog parents can ensure their beloved companions lead fulfilling lives while minimizing potential risks.

  • The importance of mock visits for dogs: Building trust and ensuring positive vet experiences

    The importance of mock visits for dogs: Building trust and ensuring positive vet experiences

    As dedicated pet parents, we cherish the companionship and love our furry friends bring into our lives. The health and happiness of our beloved dogs are of utmost importance, making regular visits to the veterinarian a vital aspect of responsible pet care. However, for many dogs, the vet’s office can be an intimidating and anxiety-inducing place. The unfamiliar sights, sounds, and smells can trigger stress, leading to reluctance, fear, and even aggressive behavior during vet appointments. As responsible and caring owners, we want to ensure our pets have positive vet experiences, where they feel safe and comfortable. Thankfully, there is an effective solution to improve our dog’s vet visits – mock visits.

     

    The importance of mock visits for dogs: Building trust and ensuring positive vet experiences

    Dylan has a number of behavioral issues so going to the vet has always been a struggle. So when we found a vet who asked us to start coming in for mock visits, our world changed. With her patience, she has been the only vet who has been able to take a blood draw and give Dylan an exam without causing Dylan to have more trauma. So, we want to talk about the profound importance of mock visits for dogs. From building trust and reducing anxiety to creating positive vet experiences, we’ll explore the myriad benefits of incorporating mock visits into your dog’s routine. By embracing this approach, you too can help your furry friend feel more at ease during vet visits, strengthen your bond, and ensure a lifetime of happiness and health.

     

    Understanding dog anxiety: The key to successful vet visits

    Dogs are remarkably perceptive creatures, attuned to the world around them. The veterinary clinic, with its unfamiliar environment, bustling activity, and various stimuli, can be overwhelming for our canine companions. As responsible pet parents, it’s crucial to recognize signs of canine anxiety, which may include trembling, panting, whining, hiding, or displaying aggressive behavior. If you adopted a dog, you may not know their history, so potentially they had negative experiences in these clinical settings.

    Enter mock visits, the superhero of stress reduction! The primary objective of mock visits is to gradually familiarize dogs with the vet’s office, staff, and examination procedures. By providing controlled and positive exposure, mock visits help desensitize dogs to potential stressors. Over time, this gradual approach can transform an initially stressful experience into a more relaxed and manageable one during actual vet visits.

    Mock visits give dogs a chance to explore the clinic environment at their own pace. This exposure helps them build confidence, as they learn that the vet’s office isn’t a place to fear but a space where positive experiences can happen. By gaining familiarity with the surroundings, smells, and friendly faces of the veterinary team, dogs become more comfortable and less anxious during subsequent visits.

    Moreover, mock visits offer an opportunity for pet parents to observe their dog’s reactions and behavior in a veterinary setting. Identifying signs of anxiety during mock visits allows you to address any concerns with your veterinarian proactively. Collaborating with the vet on anxiety-reducing strategies can significantly improve your dog’s experience during real vet visits.

    For Dylan, we never bring him into a regular exam room, as that always caused too much anxiety. Thankfully our vet determined that Dylan would be less stressed being treated in a therapy room or the retail area.

     

    Building trust: The backbone of a healthy veterinary relationship

    Trust forms the bedrock of any successful relationship, and the bond between your dog and their veterinarian is no exception. A trusting relationship with the vet is vital for reducing stress and enhancing cooperation during examinations and treatments.

    Mock visits play a pivotal role in building this trust between your pup and their vet. During these visits, positive reinforcement techniques become the secret ingredient. Shower your dog with treats, praise, and gentle handling to make the experience enjoyable and rewarding. As your dog associates these positive experiences with the vet, trust gradually grows, leading to a more cooperative attitude during real vet visits.

    Building trust is a journey that requires patience and consistency. Mock visits help pave the way for a solid foundation of trust between your dog and their vet. When your dog feels secure and comfortable in the presence of their caregiver, it allows the veterinarian to perform necessary procedures with minimal stress. As a result, your dog’s cooperation makes the vet’s job more efficient, enabling them to provide the best care possible.

    During mock visits, observe how your dog responds to the veterinary team. A trusting relationship with the veterinarian doesn’t happen overnight, but consistent and positive interactions build mutual respect and understanding. As trust grows, your dog will feel more at ease during examinations and procedures, contributing to a positive vet experience for both your pup and the vet.

    We should note, if your dog does show signs of aggression, even if they become comfortable with the vet, for everyone’s safety, you may want to consider muzzle training. If you are successful at muzzle training, your dog shouldn’t view it as a punishment (Dylan doesn’t mind wearing his muzzle). Knowing that your dog can’t hurt themselves or the vet, will make you (and probably the vet) less anxious. Dogs feed off our anxiety, so this will also help your dog.

     

    Enhancing communication and understanding

    Effective communication is vital in any relationship, including the one you have with your dog’s healthcare team. Mock visits provide an excellent opportunity for you to communicate more effectively with your dog’s veterinarian. You can share any concerns or changes in your dog’s behavior, discuss their medical history, and inquire about preventive care options.

    On the flip side, the vet can get to know your furry companion better, understanding their unique needs and any potential health issues. They can provide valuable insights into your dog’s diet, exercise, dental care, and more. This open communication allows for better collaboration between you and your dog’s healthcare team, ensuring that your pup receives the best possible care tailored to their individual needs.

    Furthermore, mock visits offer the chance to discuss preventive care measures with the vet. These may include vaccinations, flea and tick prevention, and dental care. Preventive care is essential for your dog’s long-term health, and when they are more at ease during vet visits, it becomes easier to provide them with these essential preventive treatments.

    Having a vet who intimately knows your dog get more valuable as your dog ages. Especially with larger dogs who may develop arthritis or hip dysplasia. Dylan’s vet has become familiar with how he walks as she sees him every few months. So, we were able to discuss some challenges he was having getting up and walking and provided some suggestions to help ease his progressing arthritis.

     

    Early detection and prevention: A pawsitive approach

    When it comes to your dog’s health, proactive measures can make all the difference. Regular vet check-ups act as preventive medicine, allowing for the early detection of potential health issues. However, some dogs might not be cooperative during vet exams, especially if they are anxious or stressed.

    This is where mock visits come to the rescue, like a superhero swooping in at just the right moment. By familiarizing your dog with handling and examination techniques, mock visits enable the vet to conduct more thorough health assessments. Early detection of health issues can lead to timely interventions and treatments, significantly impacting your dog’s well-being and overall health.

    During mock visits, the vet can perform a “mock examination,” simulating a real veterinary check-up. This involves gently inspecting your dog’s eyes, ears, teeth, and paws. The vet can also listen to your dog’s heart and lungs to ensure that your pup is in optimal health. These mock examinations allow the veterinarian to detect any potential health concerns early on, increasing the chances of successful treatment and positive outcomes.

    Moreover, mock visits help your dog become comfortable with preventive care measures, such as vaccinations and parasite control. These preventive measures are essential in safeguarding your dog’s health, and when they are more at ease during vet visits, it becomes easier to provide them with these essential preventive treatments.

     

    A happier and healthier dog: The holistic benefits of mock visits for dogs

    Mock visits go beyond just easing anxiety during vet visits; they have a profound and holistic impact on your dog’s well-being, both physically and emotionally. As your dog becomes more familiar with the vet’s office and staff, their stress levels decrease, leading to improved mental health.

    Research has shown that dogs exposed to mock visits display lower stress levels and more positive behavior during vet examinations. This indicates that mock visits create a stress-free environment, contributing to your dog’s emotional well-being during vet visits.

    Moreover, mock visits promote a sense of security and comfort for your dog. By introducing them to the clinic setting and the veterinary team in a positive and non-threatening manner, you help your dog develop trust in their caregivers. This trust and comfort lead to a more relaxed and cooperative attitude during future visits. Which will set the stage for a lifetime of positive vet experiences.

    A happier and healthier dog means more joy and companionship for you as a pet parent. When your dog feels comfortable and secure during vet visits, it fosters a positive association with healthcare. And will lead to less resistance and anxiety in the long run. Regular vet visits become smoother and more pleasant experiences for both you and your pup, strengthening the bond between you.

    Building up to an exam may take time. When you start going for mock visits, it may only be 10 minutes or so. It may just involve walking to the building, getting a treat, and then leaving. You know your dog and you want to set them up for success. So, don’t be scared to take things really slowly.

    You may want to consider doing the real exam over several weeks. Your vet will at this stage know your dog intimately, so can also help assess how much your dog can handle. You don’t want to stress your dog into a full exam when they aren’t ready.

    If your dog is able, it would be good for them to become familiar with multiple technicians and doctors. Just in case you ever have an emergency and your regular vet isn’t available.

     

    Let’s recap why mock visits for dogs are vital

    Mock visits for dogs are a game-changer. It helps by reducing anxiety, building trust, and ensuring a lifetime of positive vet experiences. By gradually introducing your dog to the clinic environment, desensitizing them to vet visit procedures, and using positive reinforcement techniques, you create an atmosphere of trust and comfort. This, in turn, helps your furry friend feel more at ease during vet visits. And will lead to a more pleasant and stress-free experience for both your pup and the veterinary team.

    From early detection of potential health issues to promoting overall well-being, mock visits offer numerous benefits for your four-legged companion. Embracing this approach demonstrates your commitment to your dog’s health and happiness. It also strengthens your bond, and ensures a lifetime of love, cuddles, and playful moments together. So, don’t hesitate to incorporate mock visits into your dog’s routine. And watch them thrive with confidence and happiness in every wag of their tail. Your furry friend will thank you with a lifetime of love. And you’ll have peace of mind knowing that your pup is receiving the best care possible. Happy mock visiting!

  • Basic dog training commands

    Basic dog training commands

    Did you recently bring a new dog into your family? One of the most rewarding things about being a pet owner is seeing them grow to be happy, healthy and properly trained. It’s especially rewarding when you are the one to successfully train your dog. When training is done correctly, your dog will be set up for a more successful and less stressful life. Even simple commands like sit, stay, and down can help to turn your dog into a great dog, not only at home, but outside of your home too. Read on to learn about some basic dog training commands that every dog should learn.

     

    Basic dog training commands

    Dog training is an important aspect of being a responsible pet owner. Teaching your dog basic commands not only improves their obedience, but also helps to strengthen the bond between you and your furry companion. Here are some of the most common dog training commands and tips on how to teach them to your dog. The key to success is to have lots of treats or praise for your dog and be patient. You want training to be fun, so start by breaking each action into small steps. You also want to start slowly so that you and your dog doesn’t get frustrated. And always end on a positive note.

    You should also be aware that training will need to be done in different places and situations. If your dog knows sit, for instance, once you try it outside they may not understand. So, always start training in quiet places with little distractions then realize that you need to replicate training with added distractions or in different areas both inside and outside of your home.

    Plan to practice these basic dog training commands with your dog 3 to 4 times per day, roughly 15 minutes each time. Also, avoid repeating the commands more than once. You don’t want your dog to learn to wait until you say “off” five times before they react. You want them to learn to do something after you say the word once. After a few weeks of your schedule, your dog should be all caught up on training and ready to use his newfound skills to have a happy, playful life.

     

    Sit and down

    Sit should be one of the first commands you teach your dog. This is one of the most basic and essential commands for your dog to learn. To teach your dog to sit, hold a treat in front of their nose and move your hand up and back, so that their head follows the treat and their hind end sinks down into a sitting position. As soon as their hind end touches the ground, say “Sit” and give them the treat. Repeat this process several times a day until your dog can sit on command without the need for a treat.

    If you want to get more advanced, teach them Down. When they are in the sit position, use a treat and bring it down to the floor from their nose. Then slowly bring it away from them staying on the floor until they are in the down position. Down is important especially if you have a dog that tends to be a jumper. It’s harder for a dog to jump when they are laying down.

     

    Stay and place

    Teaching your dog to stay in one place can be helpful in many situations, such as when you need them to stay put while you answer the door or when they are off-leash in an open area. To teach this command, start by having your dog sit or lie down. Hold your hand out in front of you, palm facing your dog, and say “Stay.” If your dog stays put, give them a treat and praise. If they move, gently guide them back to the spot where they were and start again. Over time you can start walking backwards and adding distance. Your dog should be able to stay in that place until walk back to them and release them. You can eventually add the come command so they learn to stay put until you call them over.

    I’ve often had the front door open and was doing stuff outside and told Dylan and Rainey to stay and they just wait patiently, even up to 30 minutes, waiting to be signaled that they can come.

    Once you master stay, you can teach them place. Place will be a special spot that you can send them to by pointing. This is very useful to teach inside and outside. With place, you can point to where you want your dog to go and as soon as they step on that spot, you give praise or a treat. They don’t have to sit to get a reward. But to master, they should be able to go to place and either sit or lay down. Place is wonderful if you have people coming into the home or even trying to clean or something where you don’t need your dogs “helping” you.

     

    Come

    Teaching your dog to come when called is crucial for their safety and well-being. Start by standing a few feet away from your dog and calling their name. If they come to you, give them a treat and praise. Gradually increase the distance between you and your dog as they get better at coming when called. It’s always a good idea to introduce a secondary word or sound. Dylan and Rainey have also learned to come when they hear us whistle.

     

    Leave it

    Teaching your dog to leave something alone is important for preventing them from ingesting something harmful or getting into mischief. To teach this command, place a treat on the ground and tell your dog “Leave it.” If they try to take the treat, cover it with your hand and say “Leave it” again. Once they stop trying to take the treat, give them a different treat and praise. Repeat this process with different objects until your dog can leave anything alone on command. Note: you shouldn’t allow them to have the same treat that you are asking them to leave. So, have another treat in your hand to give to them while the “leave it” object is left on the floor.

    If you want to get advanced, teach them “drop it.” For this you will need to have very high-value treats so it’s more of an incentive to drop whatever they have. For this, you wait until they have something in their mouths and then tell them to drop it and show them the high value treat. Give them the treat if they drop it.

     

    Heel

    Teaching your dog to walk on a leash without pulling is important for both your safety and theirs. To teach this command, start by having your dog sit or stand next to you. Hold a treat in front of their nose and begin walking. If your dog pulls, stop walking and say “Heel.” Once your dog is walking next to you again, give them the treat and praise. Repeat this process until your dog can heel on command.

     

    Watch me

    One very important command that is much less common than it should be is “watch me.” This is a command that will come in handy, especially when you are out in a busy environment where they may be tempted or frightened by stimuli such as cars, people, wildlife, etc. If your dog is often tempted by such things, this command can help keep him safe and help keep you from being too stressed out. To train this command, hold a treat and put it close to your dog’s nose. Slowly bring the treat towards your face while saying “watch me.” Reward your pup for following directions.

     

    Off

    If you want to make sure your dog stays off of your furniture, teaching them the “off” command is imperative.  Even if you do allow your dog to be on your furniture, they need to know this command to keep them off of other people’s furniture or other areas that they are not allowed to be. If your dog gets onto the furniture, hold a treat in your fist and place it in front of the dog’s nose. They will likely try to get it, but don’t let them. Eventually they will get down from the furniture, this is when you should reward them with the treat.

     

    No

    One of the absolute best commands that you can teach your dog is “no.” This versatile command will help to keep your pup out of trouble in many different circumstances. It can keep them safe and can keep them from getting into trouble. Trust me, if your dog knows the word no, your life will be less stressful. Teach this command by leashing your dog and placing a treat on the floor. Walk the dog toward the treat. When they start to sniff it, say “no” and pull the leash toward you. Reward the dog with the treat and repeat.

     

     

    In conclusion, basic dog training commands are essential for a well-behaved and safe pet. With patience, consistency and positive reinforcement, your dog can learn these basic commands and many more. Remember to be patient with your dog and never use physical punishment, instead reward them when they do well. With regular training and practice, you and your dog will have a happy and strong bond. If  you are interested in muzzle training your dog, you can learn how we made muzzle training fun for Dylan.

  • Eight ways to bond with your dog

    Eight ways to bond with your dog

    Bonding with your dog is a relationship that requires compromise, thinking about, consideration, and shaping. It’s worth remembering that you picked your dog—he/she didn’t pick you. In the past, dogs were kept for their functionality and could live outside. This is still the case for those working with dogs like sheepdogs and rescue dogs. However, the relationship with dogs has evolved with people keeping them in their homes and treating them to the same degree as humans. Keep on reading if you’d like to learn how to bond with your dog and create a lasting relationship.

     

    Going outside

    If possible, it’s great if you frequently take your dog for a walk. This is a great bonding activity, even if your goal is not to train the dog. These free walks will allow your dog to explore and sniff. You can also let your dog lead you, but you should keep them out of trouble. On the other hand, training walks can help you work on commands like “sit” in new places. Just going for a walk is probably one of the best ways to bond with your dog. When going on walks isn’t an option, you can take your dog for a car ride. This provides the dog with a different experience.

     

    Teach new tricks

    Tricks can help take training to the next level. One of the best tricks to teach your dog is the spin. To practice this, take a treat and go outside and walk your dog in a circle. After this, you can guide the dog and reward them after they go a quarter turn. Gradually reward your dog until they can do a half turn and then a full spin. Rename the behavior to a twirl or spin and practice until the dog doesn’t need persuasion with a treat. Teaching your dog new tricks helps exercise their mind and body. It also helps strengthen your bond by increasing trust and confidence.

     

    Talk to your dog

    Talking to your dog is another easy way of bonding with your dog. Reading to your dog can help shelter them while building relationships. Besides, it can help reduce stress. The practice is helpful for both you and your dog. Your dog will tend to enjoy hearing a familiar voice while you can take the chance to read something that you enjoy. Besides, you can also talk to your dog by frequently asking questions. This can make it easier for you when working from home.

     

    Let your dog use their nose

    Having your dog use their nose at home can help tap into their natural foraging and scavenger abilities. It’s easy to set up different things and let the dog learn to hunt its food around the house. One of the best ways of having the dog use their nose is to set a few boxes in a room and place treats. After this, you can instruct your dog to try and find the smelly, tasty, and high-value treats. As the dog searches for the treats, they get to use their natural senses and brains to try and solve the problem. Eventually, the dog can use the boxes as visual identifiers to locate the treats. After the dog finds the boxes, you can make the exercise more challenging by reducing the number of boxes and eventually taking the boxes away.

     

    Exercise basic training

    It’s advisable to choose a simple behavior to teach your dog. After finding something to train, spend at least five to six minutes daily using positive methods. This helps build a stronger bond since both of you learn to develop mutual understanding and trust. Besides training, always remember to reward your dog—it helps to reinforce behavior. For the treats, you can cut them down to smaller sizes, thus rewarding your dog without making them fat.

     

    Engage your dog’s natural behaviors

    One way of engaging your dog’s natural behaviors is using a flirt pole. It’s a giant cat toy for dogs that you can easily make at home or purchase. To use the pole, you should tie a toy at the end, swing it and let the dog catch it. You can also add some interesting rules to the game by having the dog drop and pick up the toy on request. The training can help teach your dog impulse control while creating a deeper bond. Furthermore, having the dog catch the toy helps decrease the likelihood of disappointment.

     

    Use the power of touch

    Some vets believe that a soft, gentle massage can help lower blood pressure and relieve stress. To properly massage your dog, use your fingertips in circular motions. The neck and chest are amongst the areas that dogs love to be massaged. Over time, you can discover favorite spots on your dog, like their ears, head, or hindquarters. Watching your dog relax during the massage can also be relaxing to you.

     

    Find enriching toys

    There are many dog enrichment products that you can get, including food toys, and puzzles. It is, therefore, essential to learn what your dog likes and dislikes. When using a new toy, you should observe how your dog reacts. Some things like food puzzles are enjoyable and safe. If a specific puzzle doesn’t work out, you can find something new or find a different toy. When using food puzzles, you will note that some are easier to solve than others. Avoid something that can cause frustration and find something tasty, thus motivating the dog to work harder. You can even make your own puzzles.

     

    Always remember that bonding with your dog is an endless journey. Therefore, if you opt to do fun training exercises, they shouldn’t be a one-and-done effort. Instead, you should train the dog throughout their life, thus helping you create a more intelligent dog. Besides, bonding with your dog can help eliminate behavioral problems, separation anxiety, reactivity, nuisance behaviors, etc. It can also help give you some comfort during high-stress periods. Trying out these tips can help you find something that can bring you and your dog closer. And you will hopefully find new ways to bond with your dog.